Perhaps you read lots and lots of parenting books, but also ask a lot of kids over there
who you think you have to fully understand and master the skills to meet the baby. However,
when baby and you met that moment, all this might have very confusing ... ...
Novice parents, a common child-rearing embarrassing thing
Awkward one: I believe that all people and things
Baby was born in the first few weeks, the novice parents Hen Buneng from all the people
around him for advice, do not do that.
Because, from different people's opinions often may be conflicting, such as an acquaintance
told the novice and the baby to sleep with Mom and Dad, but the novice Mom and Dad's best
friend is strongly opposed to. The cousin told the novice parents, baby sucking his little
finger is no problem, but the pediatrician has told parents to give him comfort pacifier
novice. Even given by different experts have different child-care proposals. What should
listen to whom it?
Solution: their offspring themselves know best. Believe they can do it well, novice parents
intuition is the best guide, if the respect for everyone's opinion and strictly enforced,
then the novice parents have lost the joy of creating life and principles. Need to
understand, baby Oh, but your own.
Embarrassed 2: to overestimate their own spare time
Whether novice parents plan to stay at home with the baby after the long: a few weeks,
months or years, they do not feel at home with a baby in the degree of long holiday. On the
contrary, since with the baby, another novice parents started a new job, and a more "harsh"
and "boss" to work together, even in the weekends to the novice parents a little break.
Solution: plan a good time to themselves. Suggested itself as novice parents every day is a
real plan: to a friend make a phone call, finishing beds. End of the day, when novice
parents put a program on every list crossed, of course, will find this day very fulfilling.
Embarrassment 3: The baby is the only life
Baby small, novice parents will feel great pressure, or mood depression, from the carefree
duo in the world to bring up your baby's transformation process is the greatest challenge
of marriage. If the two sides also baby into the first position and ignore each other's
keeping the child, marital status of the natural inevitable in some small.
Solution: timely and more attention to each other. If possible, hire a nanny, or hourly,
weekly for novice parents they have a free night out as two people dating days. Novice
parents who can talk about the baby, you can also chat about other things. As long as the
other side of mutual concern, and become a habit, it helps to marriage.
Embarrassed 4: put himself in the final
In the baby or the baby, they will remember a little time to yourself every day, drink a
cup of coffee, look for a newspaper, which is half an hour makes hard labor Leiliaoyitian
of new mothers feel very comfortable.
Solution: With the proper care for their baby also. Yourself a little space and time, find
a friend's phone, chat, or go to yoga class, get back his original, do not always feel that
they are mechanical, not happy. The more happy, more relaxed parents would have done
better.
Awkward five: child care, novice father was an outsider
A new father and new mother, like child-rearing needs to learn a process, so do not put my
father out of the child-care outside the novice.
Solution: shared learning and common progress. In the novice father to help his mother,
when not finding a way for him not to blame, and continue to command. As parents, two
people learning together, both parties will feel more relaxed, but also learn from each
other, learn more skills.
Awkward 6: distress when they got nervous
Each baby will experience some health problems, and some may be a more serious, so that
novice parents very worried. Even a healthy baby will be some symptoms, for example,
eczema, cough, hernia, diarrhea.
Solution: relax. In fact, novice parents should not be too worried about today's society,
many things can all be controlled. When the novice to face the fact that parents will feel
better, because things have taken place, and not for novice parents can be avoided.
Embarrassed 7: and inferior to others in baby
Baby sleep through the night to feel do? He laugh? He could try to sit up? Do not attention
is focused on what he has achieved a level not affected by the impact of other parents of
those interviewed, because that novice parents we feel like there is always room baby
develop slower than others.
Solution: Every baby's development is different. Baby's development has its own rule.
Novice parents need in a normal frame of mind and relaxed frame of mind to come back.
Awkward eight: spending too much money for the baby
Everyone will tell novice parents, baby will change the lives of novice parents. But no one
told the novice parents, baby make novice Mom and Dad's purse is shrinking as a novice
parents Hen Buneng baby give it everything, but no regrets.
Solution: a moderate and reasonable plan expenses. The inclusion of a table will reduce the
novice parents, the excess expenditure. Looking for experienced and novice parents together
with parents to buy things, she would tell the parents what is really useful for novice,
and novice parents can be fooled less.
who you think you have to fully understand and master the skills to meet the baby. However,
when baby and you met that moment, all this might have very confusing ... ...
Novice parents, a common child-rearing embarrassing thing
Awkward one: I believe that all people and things
Baby was born in the first few weeks, the novice parents Hen Buneng from all the people
around him for advice, do not do that.
Because, from different people's opinions often may be conflicting, such as an acquaintance
told the novice and the baby to sleep with Mom and Dad, but the novice Mom and Dad's best
friend is strongly opposed to. The cousin told the novice parents, baby sucking his little
finger is no problem, but the pediatrician has told parents to give him comfort pacifier
novice. Even given by different experts have different child-care proposals. What should
listen to whom it?
Solution: their offspring themselves know best. Believe they can do it well, novice parents
intuition is the best guide, if the respect for everyone's opinion and strictly enforced,
then the novice parents have lost the joy of creating life and principles. Need to
understand, baby Oh, but your own.
Embarrassed 2: to overestimate their own spare time
Whether novice parents plan to stay at home with the baby after the long: a few weeks,
months or years, they do not feel at home with a baby in the degree of long holiday. On the
contrary, since with the baby, another novice parents started a new job, and a more "harsh"
and "boss" to work together, even in the weekends to the novice parents a little break.
Solution: plan a good time to themselves. Suggested itself as novice parents every day is a
real plan: to a friend make a phone call, finishing beds. End of the day, when novice
parents put a program on every list crossed, of course, will find this day very fulfilling.
Embarrassment 3: The baby is the only life
Baby small, novice parents will feel great pressure, or mood depression, from the carefree
duo in the world to bring up your baby's transformation process is the greatest challenge
of marriage. If the two sides also baby into the first position and ignore each other's
keeping the child, marital status of the natural inevitable in some small.
Solution: timely and more attention to each other. If possible, hire a nanny, or hourly,
weekly for novice parents they have a free night out as two people dating days. Novice
parents who can talk about the baby, you can also chat about other things. As long as the
other side of mutual concern, and become a habit, it helps to marriage.
Embarrassed 4: put himself in the final
In the baby or the baby, they will remember a little time to yourself every day, drink a
cup of coffee, look for a newspaper, which is half an hour makes hard labor Leiliaoyitian
of new mothers feel very comfortable.
Solution: With the proper care for their baby also. Yourself a little space and time, find
a friend's phone, chat, or go to yoga class, get back his original, do not always feel that
they are mechanical, not happy. The more happy, more relaxed parents would have done
better.
Awkward five: child care, novice father was an outsider
A new father and new mother, like child-rearing needs to learn a process, so do not put my
father out of the child-care outside the novice.
Solution: shared learning and common progress. In the novice father to help his mother,
when not finding a way for him not to blame, and continue to command. As parents, two
people learning together, both parties will feel more relaxed, but also learn from each
other, learn more skills.
Awkward 6: distress when they got nervous
Each baby will experience some health problems, and some may be a more serious, so that
novice parents very worried. Even a healthy baby will be some symptoms, for example,
eczema, cough, hernia, diarrhea.
Solution: relax. In fact, novice parents should not be too worried about today's society,
many things can all be controlled. When the novice to face the fact that parents will feel
better, because things have taken place, and not for novice parents can be avoided.
Embarrassed 7: and inferior to others in baby
Baby sleep through the night to feel do? He laugh? He could try to sit up? Do not attention
is focused on what he has achieved a level not affected by the impact of other parents of
those interviewed, because that novice parents we feel like there is always room baby
develop slower than others.
Solution: Every baby's development is different. Baby's development has its own rule.
Novice parents need in a normal frame of mind and relaxed frame of mind to come back.
Awkward eight: spending too much money for the baby
Everyone will tell novice parents, baby will change the lives of novice parents. But no one
told the novice parents, baby make novice Mom and Dad's purse is shrinking as a novice
parents Hen Buneng baby give it everything, but no regrets.
Solution: a moderate and reasonable plan expenses. The inclusion of a table will reduce the
novice parents, the excess expenditure. Looking for experienced and novice parents together
with parents to buy things, she would tell the parents what is really useful for novice,
and novice parents can be fooled less.
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